We all succumb to the stresses of wedding planning, which may lead to certain aspects being overlooked or left to the last minute…here are some top dos and don’ts and remember you are the number one priority on this day…let everything else suffer!
Top Dos and Don’ts
1. Don’t get a haircut/ colour the week of your wedding
You’ve heard of hair salon mishaps; hair turning green, sneezing and having hair half the length you wanted it etc…well what is to say it wouldn’t happen to you? Why would you even risk that! Book a hair appointment at least a week or two before your big day, this way you leave time to remedy any mishaps. (although if you sneeze and half your hair gets cut off..not sure there’s a lot you can do in a week!) This time also allows for your colour to settle etc.
2. Don’t Change your Hair Colour
Slight extension to point 1 but if you are a blonde or a brunette, don’t suddenly turn into the other. You want to look like yourself on your big day! (And who knows what the other colour will look like)
3. Do Drink More Water
Start increasing your water intake from about 6 months prior to the big day. You want your skin to glow and your eyes to sparkle and that doesn’t happen without preparation! This should be both bride and groom, you don’t want to look gorgeous and glowing only for the other half to look grey and ashen! Fill those bottles!
4. Don’t Wait to Wax
Don’t leave your waxing until the last minute. It always takes at least 24-48 hours for redness and swelling to go down. Make sure you leave enough time between a bright red face and your first wedding event.
5. Do Book in Advance
Make sure you book your mani/ pedi appointments as far in advance as you need to. The last thing you need to be stressed about is trying to find a last minute manicurist. Book for at least 3-5 days before you need to do anything important with your hands. For example if your wedding events start on the Weds or Thurs; have your nail appointment on Sunday/ Monday, to allow the pain to subside, ( and to get used to your new nails if they’re not real).
6. Don’t Have a Facial..
..the week of your wedding. You should definitely plan a course of facials to allow a deep cleanse for your wedding, but starting at least 3 months prior to your big day and ending at least a week before your big day. Facials tend to pull out all the toxins from your skin and in doing so may cause unsightly rashes and breakouts…not the look you were going for? Plan ahead!
7. Do Test your Tan
If you’re having a spray tan/ using fake tan, do have a test run. Visiting your spray tanner before your ‘real’ spray tan could save you some streaky embarrassment. If you are happy with the service and it’s even and streak-free, then book a full spray tan 2-3 days before the big day.
8. Do Take Trial Photos
When you are having your make up trial done, make sure there is somebody there to take photographs of you after the makeup has been applied. This is the best way to ensure you are happy with your overall look. (If your MUA says no..I’d probably look for another one..)
9. Do Choose your Perfume
Many people will be sitting very close to you today, hugging you, congratulating you etc. you want to smell good. Choose a perfume to match your ‘look’ for the day and pre spray your outfit the night before the big day, that way if you sweat it off your skin, it’ll still be on your clothes. Avoid spraying your clothes on the day, as you don’t want perfume blotches on the dress!
10. Don’t Drink Wine…..Whaaaaaat?!
As difficult as it may be, in the weeks leading up to the big day, try and avoid red wine or dark coloured drinks; coffee, coke or otherwise. These are very colouring and abstaining these for a short amount of time may help your gleamers gleam to their whitest. If you’re undergoing tooth whitening treatment then this is a definite no no! (Otherwise whitening strips help, try Crest)
11. Avoid Salty Food
Salt has the amazing ability to hold more than 50 times it’s weight in water (or so I read)…now imagine that in your body…I think I’ve made my point. Avoid salty foods the week before your wedding and remain bloat free!
12. Do Put Down the Straighteners
Every hair stylist’s worst nightmare is pre straightened hair. I know you think you’re doing us a favour by helping..but really you’re just making our job impossible. You want big, gorgeous, fluffy curls? That won’t happen if your hair has been trained to be straight! Leave your locks!
Not that I get angry about this or anything…
13. Don’t Condition
On the same note as the above, don’t put conditioner on your hair the day of your events, it makes for difficult styling. Unconditioned hair will hold better and style better. Your hairstylist should request this anyway, but if in doubt, don’t condition..it’s always the better option.
14. Don’t Wear your Bra
You heard right! But I’m talking about before putting on your dress..be freeeee. Wearing a bra seems harmless whilst you’re getting your hair and make up done etc..however just lounging in your bra can cause unsightly red marks; straps or otherwise which may not be visible under your pyjama top..but will be very apparent in your strapless dress. Lose the bra girls, let your girls be free!
15. Do Touch Up
It doesn’t matter how good your make up artist is, there is always a need to touch up. Especially those of us sitting under mandap in front of a giant fire pit..we’re going to sweat and we are going to be licking our lips. Pre plan a touch up kit with your make up artist and buy the pieces they are using on your skin. Ask them to suggest best ways to touch up and then brief your maid of honour/ sister/ bridesmaid/ mum…anyone who you trust enough to tell you when your blusher is dripping off!
16. Don’t Cry Your Makeup Away
You’ve spent far too much money on your face to cry it all off. Asian weddings see a lot more crying than most..no really, there’s an entire section of the wedding dedicated to crying. This is where you need to carry a tissue and touch it to your tear duct or outer eye corner and let the tears flow..just into the tissue! (Sorry grandparents..no tears today!)
17. Do Practice Wearing Falsies
If you don’t wear them often, practicing wearing false eyelashes are a big must. You don’t want to not be able to open your eyes on your wedding day or turn into blinky mcblinkerson! If you can’t handle the weight of eyelashes, your make up artists will be able to suggest alternative ways to give you lustrous lashes, but they’ll need some notice. So get to a drugstore and pick some up!
18. Don’t Change Anything!
By anything, I mean, pills, detergent, make up, cream, facewash, foundation…literally anything! stick to what you are used to. The last thing you want to do is have a reaction to something new!
19. Do Make Time to Sleep
As your wedding day fast approaches, being able to sleep is becoming a rarity. Whether it be nerves or stress keeping you up at night, start yourself into a bedtime routine from a few weeks prior to the big day, yes just like a child. Have a bath, read a book and sleep at least 8- 10 hours a night. This will ensure you are looking and feeling your best on the big day.
20. Do Enjoy Yourself
You will be the centre of attention for the entire day, which also means the centre of a lot of different cameras’ attentions. If you are enjoying your day, you will look absolutely beautiful! It is too late by this point to change anything or do anything….so smile, relax and get married.